Most people simply don't want it, but Sperbs are hard-wired to give it out for free. Try not to blurt out unsolicited observations, especially in non-critical situations where people's feelings could be hurt. If somebody is driving the wrong way down a one-way road, by all means don't wait for an invitation to chime in, but in most situations a Sperb's observations are best made in silence.
If somebody asks for your opinion on a situation, however, don't lie. Let them know where you stand, phrased in a tactful manner if possible, even if it's somewhere they may not want to follow.
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